Monday, October 15, 2007

Some 'friends' are just not worth keeping

Sigh... hate to make the above statement because I always treat friends very well. Doing whatever I can when they are in need of help. Spending time with them whenever I can. However like all things, there is always a limit. When the that limit is reach, don't blame me for taking the appropreate reactions.

Story time:
2 female friends C & J. J got to know C not too long ago. J mentioned something personal to C and C being her, talks about it over a clubbing session where J wasn't present.
Out of goodwill and perhaps seeing J might not know C that well, I told J that C sometimes accidentally talks about things she shouldn't have when she's high or when not specifically told NOT to tell. Guess what? J confronted J. J calls me and question me when I talks about what was mentioned in the pub.
Good thing was, C still asked me out for drinks and guess what J did? stopped talking to me and C. What the hell? What have I don't to deserve this?

Guess I was being kah poh. Should have just let J go tell C all her juicy news and I get an update from C (as if I am interested)

I can be forgiving but if by having a friend that ends up gettng myself in trouble with others, I rather not have that friend.